I am currently reading, for the 4
th time, James
Dobson's Strong-willed child. The
Foreword of this book stated is perfectly....and I quote...Just as
surely as some children are naturally compliant, others seem to be defiant upon exit from the womb. They come into the world
smoking a cigar and yelling about the
temperature in the delivery room and the incompetence if the nursing staff and the way doctors are running things.
I know that each of one of my children is unique, and I believe, like Dr.
Dobson that children do not start as a blank slate. They bring with them an individuality that is
uniquely their own, different from that of every other individual who has ever lived. The innate characteristic that varies from child to child is that of the "strength of the will". He states that the strong-willed child seems compelled from within to fuss, fight, test, resist and challenge...that is my little O!
I am praying daily that the Lord will give me the patience to put into practice a balanced environment for him. I want to parent with
discipline, but also with patience, respect and affection. I pray that I will not simply shape the will, but do this w/o breaking his spirit.
The Lord blessed us with O and I am believing that his strong-will will serve him well with his peers in the long run, but I must say...this parenting thing is hard work and with such a spirited child such as O, it might be the hardest thing I have ever had to do!