Tid bits

Basketball over......team party at Yogurt Twist below!

onto baseball and lacrosse and gymnastics~

whew!

GONE with the BODY CAST

 Onto Long Leg casts!

Matt's second job, "Dad of a boy scout" is still going on!

 dads and their sons had to bring a cake to the banquet...we were not aware that it was a contest to see who could make the most amazing cake, but you know what they still won an award....

MOST COLORFUL!  We got a good laugh out of that one.

 If you have kept up with my posts, you know how much I L-O-V-E Birmingham Children's Theatre....

we went to see The Little Engine that Could .  Very cute and so fun!

Here is Kate with a few of the characters.

 Finally, Avery has come so far in the last 6 months.  Today I got this great picture of these two buddies/

This was taken right before Gray grabbed her head and pushed her! 

Sibling Rivalry!  Don't feel too bad for sweet little Avery.  Trust me, this girl can hold her own.

So, we have been enjoying our mild winter by spending lots of time playing outside.

Between Lacrosse 3 times a week and Baseball 2 times/week, and Gymnastics, we are in the car quite a bit.

I was able to compete in the Mercedes half Marathon this year.  This race is a lot of fun because it is local and it is so well out together.  Each year it grows!  This is my 3rd time to finish it and I was so glad I got to do it.  The kids were able to track my progress on-line, so that was fun for them.

My time was pretty good considering I really didn't train that hard for it.  I think I will take that approach more often!

This past week, we also had to put our beloved dog, Sampson to sleep.  Sampson drove me crazy a lot of the time, but he was a great, sweet dog that has been part of our family since Matt and I got engaged.  I feel like I have lost a family member.  It was hard to let him go.  The kids were all ok, he has been going down hill for a while now, but Kate really got upset.  Matt and I had to laugh over this because I am not sure she had ever even petted Sampson.  After Owen got attacked by a dog, she has not been a "dog person". 

Nonetheless, she bawled and bawled.  It was so sweet.  She just has a sweet compassionate heart.

I am not sure how life will be without a dog.  I am not ready to tackle a puppy quite yet...but am thinking my birthday (july) might be fun!  Any thoughts on a good breed....and please don't say any kind of "doodle" .  I do not like poodles. 

On the horizon, is a much needed girls trip for ME! hip hip hooray!

 and Spring Break with the family.

We are also counting down 3 more weeks until we can get this cast off.

Lots of laughs, lots of chaos, lots of screams, lots of fighting, lots of laundry, lots of messes....

but lots of love here!

One Week

I can't believe we are a 1 week post surgery!  We have had quite a lot of challenging things come our way, but so thankful that through prayer and faith we are where we are and persevering through, because....well, what else can you do?
Sunday night I put sweet Avery to bed, knowing that when we woke her up the next morning at 6:00, to head down to Children's Hospital, we were changing her life and ours as well.  5 1/2 short months ago we brought our little girl home, well aware that we would be dealing with some orthopedic issues that would need to be addressed.  Her referral, from China, at age 9 months stated that she did not have knee caps.  After talking with many doctors and specialists and spending lots of time in prayer, we knew she was ours and we needed her home. 
Upon arriving back home, we spent 5 months doing physical therapy; 2, sometimes 3 times a week,  to see where we could get without doing any invasive surgery quite yet.  She got stronger.  Avery learned how to push a walker and even took a few steps on her own, but it was all very unconventional and awkward.  She did not have the strength or ability to do anymore.  After going through an MRI in December, we discovered that she did have a patella, it was just shifted to the side of her knee.  In the wrong position on both knees.  Her tendons would need lengthening and she would need surgery to put the patellas in their proper position.
The rest was a no brainer.  We trusted our Doctor.  We set the surgery for the end of January, in hopes to get one more month of bonding before we put her through the whole process of surgery and casting.
The morning of surgery we arrive and the sadness I felt for this poor little girl weighed on my heart so heavily.  Hasn't she been through enough?  Abandoned at birth, labeled special needs, institutionalized!  But, the God of this universe, the creator of all things, sought her out and burdened our hearts for the orphan.  I can only hold onto my faith that God is up to some amazing things with our little Avery.  He placed her with loving foster women 4 months before we got her, and gave her a spirited and determined personality to deal with her "need".   God IS using her to change our family, to change me and to change all she meets.

That morning, as I walked her back to the red line, (where you have to pass your child off to the nurses for surgery)...I held back so many tears.  I knew this was what was best for her.  I knew we had to do it!  But she wouldn't be able to understand and that broke my heart.
After 3 hours of surgery, Matt and I were brought to our room and shortly after they brought her in.  To our surprise the cast was clear up to her armpits!  A Spica cast is what they call it.  Oh.....it is big.  It is heavy.  It is awkward!  How was I going to do this?  I have 4 other very needy young kids at home.  She can't sit up!  She is 22 months and has to lay there for 5-6 weeks.  I kept asking the nurses what I was suppose to do all day with her?  how would I feed her? Clean her? Carry her? Hug her?
Shortly after, I asked if they could take her off the IV for a few minutes so that I could hold her.  I needed to hold my baby and something inside me told me she needed to be held.  I picked her up (all 50 lbs) and she laid her head on my shoulder and we walked the halls.  My arms got tired, but I didn't want to put her down...I wanted her to feel that skin to skin.  To know that we did not, and will not abandon her!   We weren't going anywhere.  Mommy and Daddy were here!
A week has past by slowly, but I have learned so much from her.  She is such a trooper.  We are obviously changing how we do a few things.  Is it easy?  No!  But, it is temporary.  We know that she will walk....she will run!  I think the day it happens I will weep many tears for her and for us!  Tears of joy and tears of gratitude that the Lord has walked with us through this journey.   I think back to this time last year.  A little girl, Fu leMei, in a remote area of China, lying in her crib most of the day, without a family.  No doubt she would probably never get the surgery she needed had we not listened and obeyed what God had clearly called us to do.  Obedience that was not easy in many ways, but God is always faithful when we listen to His call , and we believe that God didn't call us to save Avery....He chose Avery to change US!
Here are some pictures from the morning of the surgery and post op!

waiting to head back!

 trying to keep her happy...she was NOT!

 I finally got to hold her!

 I am strong, but this is HEAVY!

 Nana and Grandad visit

 Signing the cast

It's Circus Time!

Every January, the only thing I have to look forward to is the circus.  Sad isn't it?  There are 2 reasons why I look forward to this event.
1.  It always is at the end of the month....meaning I actually made it through the most miserable month of the year.
2.  Matt's company gives us free tickets to the circus complete with amazing seats AND tickets to the pre-circus party, complete with free food, face paining, jumpys, clown, dancing, etc...
Matt was off on an all guys ski trip....(I am not as nice as you think...I have a girl's trip in the works for March!), so my baby sister, Morgan came over to go with us.  We took Avery to Matt's parents because I knew clowns and lots of people probably wouldn't be a good mix for her, but everyone else got to go!
This was the first year that we stayed the entire REALLY LOOOOONNNNNGGGG time!  Wills insisted that he has never stayed the whole circus and everyone was doing relatively well being up so late that we just stayed.  We pulled back in our driveway at 11:10 that night.
And everyone slept in until 11 the next day! 
Ha.....not really.  Up as usual but it was worth it.

Sorry about the picture quality.  And the last one was a self taken picture by my 5 year old!

Hanging Around

Lacrosse anyone?  Owen has been ready to play Lacrosse for over a year now, thanks to the older "cool" neighbors down the street that are always in there yard practicing.  We decided that it may be a good fit for him after all because it is a rough sport and to be quite honest, I think Owen feels the need to just hit somebody with a stick.  He is very aggressive in basketball, so if we channel that to a sport that is more of a contact sport than we might have a winner.  The kid is fearless. 

Just the other day, Wills came running inside saying "Mom, Mom, Owen needs help.  He is in a tree and can't get down".

Being the calm mother of boys that I am, I finished up cleaning the kitchen and slowly made my way to the backyard.  There we find Owen hanging , by his jacket, from a tree branch 5 feet off the ground.  He  supposedly fell but his (brand new) jacket caught a limb and he was hanging there from it.  (it was like in the cartoons!!!)  He was a little shook up, especially because his jacket was ripped and his pocket knife fell out, but quickly forgot because I have seen him climbing many trees since!

Here is my little guy in his lacrosse gear, that carriers a very high price tag---might I add!  Ouch!

 One of Avery's favorite things to do is to read books....She loves to be read to!

I finally took her to the Library and she loved it.  I checked out lots of books in preparation for her surgery.

 Sisters!

She also loves to smile for the camera!

I have said it before by Kate really is such a wonderful big sister.

 Gray is trying really really hard to be a good big brother, but it is so hard when you are 3!

 Brothers!  13 months apart and completely different personalities!

They are as Opposite as opposite can get!

 We also spent a good portion of our Sunday at Boy scouts Pine derby race!

I must say I was ready to stop the pine derby races after hour 2, but the boys had fun with it!

The big boys mostly (dads)

Matt and I were too busy chasing around Gray and Avery and keeping Wills and Kate happy to really watch any of it.

Owen's car is the blue one.  It was totally upstaged by all the other cars.

Clearly we missed the memo to spend hours and hours on it.

 If you are dying to know who won this race....Owen came in 3rd!

Hike, Dance, and Play

We have had some really good, fun family times lately.  With 5 kids, things get so busy that finding time to plan something for the whole family to do together is far and few between lately.  With basketball, cheer leading, school, work, therapy, etc...life is flying by!
Big shout out to MLK because not only am I able to teach my kids about equality and how God loves each one of us, (no matter our skin color, shape or size),  his legacy also allows for my very hard working husband to take a much needed day off and doggone it.....I was going to make him take it!
We loaded up the car with our bikes, scooters, backpack for Avery, picnic lunch and then piled the kids in!
Matt was a little worried because it was overcast and sprinkling, but my IPhone said...sunny skies, so we were off plus, if I get my mind on something, are doing it!
We headed to the most amazing state park that is practically right in our backyard.  My Bham peeps, take advantage of Oak Mt State park! It is a hidden treasure.
We drove back to a trail that would lead us to Peavine Falls and we hiked it as a family.  I have so many great memories of me and my sisters hiking with my dad.  There is something about being outside where the kids can run free, scream as loud as they want and explore, that makes me want to take family hikes weekly.
The kids had a blast.  We ate a hearty lunch of PBandJs and went to the trail to ride bikes along the lake.  It was so fun to not worry about cars, and the kids just went straight along the trail with no stopping or turning around.  We topped a fun family day off with Yogurt Twist ---which is our fave treat spot lately.
Now I want one!

Wills is in the news these past weeks at our house.  He got invited to a par...tay....seriously, it was a Party with a capital P.  It was a girl in his class and Wills wasn't too thrilled to go, but once he got there and saw the DJ and dance floor (yes, he is 8) he was rolling with the homies.  At one point, and I am not kidding....he was in the middle of the dance floor, with a circle formed around him, of his classmates (and their parents) clapping and cheering as he showed off his very interesting dance moves.  I have video, but I am honestly too embarrassed to put it on here.  He wouldn't be embarrassed.  In fact, he has watched the 3 minute long clip of him dancing many times and is quite proud.  I will add that all his moves are defiantly from his Daddy!
Later on in the week, he toned it down for square dancing at school.  He promenaded and do se do ed his partner so and clapped and stomped , not one bit traumatized by the fact that he was square dancing with a girl.  It really was cute to watch! 
Owen has already told me that he will NOT be square dancing next year.  He will be sick or in his words "maybe we can just do school at home in January"

 I took Avery and Gray to McWane Science Center and they had so much fun.  I knew Avery would love the water station and she stayed there most of the time.  She had blast!  look at her face!

Surgery is on the horizon for Avery.  It is going to be quite the journey.  My heart breaks thinking of all she will have to go through, after already been through so much!  She is a strong little girl though.

Please keep her and our family in your prayers as we prepare for what is sure to be a challenging few months ahead!

2012

We spent NYE at the beach.  Amazing weather and a great time spent as a family. 

It was Avery's first time to the beach.  She had to get used to the sand, but eventually warmed up to it.

It was one of the best trips we have had in a while.

Here is our annual pic on the big chair...Avery is finally with us!

 Here is Spiderman asleep one night!

 Matt and I thought she resembled Tom Cruise here!

 And Spidey on the beach.  I think Gray made lots of people laugh that day.

We had to draw the line when he jumped in the pool wearing the mask! 

Who Dat?

IT'S ME!!!
I am back, although I will only commit to 1 (maybe 2, if I am feeling it) posts a week.  Why you ask? 
Well, between juggling 5 kids (one new to our family) a very needy, old dog ---who is like a 6th child lately, a husband who works way to hard and trying to fit in teaching boot camp, spin, and other classes at the gym, I am just trying to keep my head above water.
No pity party for me....I love staying busy.  I fall asleep the minute my head hits the pillow and I have sweet dreams of folding laundry, loading the dishwasher and cleaning toilets!  Ahhhh.....the life of a mommy!
So, lately we have been recovering from a wonderful Christmas.  Avery's first with our family.  I wish I could say it was amazing, but she was not a fan!  Way too overwhelming and just too much to handle.  She has only been home a little over 5 months now, and although life seems somewhat normal and we don't remember life without Avery, I still see the baggage of spending the first year of her life in an institution.  It is heartbreaking when I think about it...how much babies need love and touch and a family and that she didn't get it.

 Kate asked me tonight whose tummy Avery was in because she wasn't in mine (praise the Lord for that---first off, if I birthed a Chinese child I would get some fame for sure and
second...been there done that..this shop is closed!)
I simply told her another mommy had her in her tummy and couldn't care for her, so God thought we would be a  perfect family for her .  Thankful for His plan for her life and the honor to be her Mom!
The rest of the gang is doing just fine....
Gray still thinks he is a super hero and is still layering his clothes.  He wore 5 shirts to school this week!
Kate is as girly as they get...thank you Lord!  She is the best big sister, and babysitter!  Really, she helps me with Avery so much!
My sweet Owen continues to make me laugh (and cry).  Oh, how I love that child and pray that God uses Him to do great things one day!  The other day he fell out of the tree and I literally did not flinch!  He got right back up and climbed again!  He also pulled out a tooth that was not even loose to start with.  He worked on getting that tooth out for 2 days straight.  I must admit, it was impressive in a weird way!
Wills is loving school and his friends.  He is super sensitive, which is complete opposite of his 13 month younger brother, but we are working on solving problems without crying!  He loves to sneak downstairs after everyone falls asleep and hang out with Mom and Dad at night.  We get some special time with just him and he loves it.
The boys are playing basketball and they are still young enough to not care that their coach is their MOM! 
It is so fun.  Really!  I have way more fun than they do!
Avery is still not walking.  She has gotten so much stronger with therapy, but she will need to have surgery on her knees this month.  I will go into more detail in a later post.

I am teaching quite a bit at both the gym and for Extreme Fit Boot camps (owned by a friend of mine).
I love to teach and I love fitness , so it is a great fit for me.  Doing something outside of  Mommy-hood (although that is most important) has been good for me!.  It is nice to meet so many new people and help people reach goals and get healthy. 

I am actually taking all my earnings and saving for a Disney World trip for our family next Spring Break. 

Do you know how much it costs for a family of 7 to go to the most magical place (most expensive place) on Earth?  Ughh...

When you have 5 kids , vacations aren't really in the budget, so I am saving a % of my hard earned cash for

our trip. Matt thinks I should just open up another account, but I like the old school jar idea!

I also have another jar for heaven on Earth....Costa Rica!  Just Matt and I---maybe one day.

So, there you have it!  A summary of life lately! I know I have most of you on the edge of your seat with ALL the excitement and happenings of our family. 

No really, I love all my blogger friends. 

Please let me know you are still with me and haven't given up on me!

Week in review

After 3 failed attempts to get a Christmas card picture on 3 different occasions......

I took about 80 pictures in all and all of them looked somewhat like this...

I finally got a semi-good one today at church!  Big sigh of relief there!

We spent Saturday making Gingerbread houses at the kid's school!

It was suppose to be one house per family, but they were kind enough to allow us to have 2!

I DO have 3 kids at the school! 

 My parents came over for Avery's dedication at church today! 

Isn't this a great picture of my mom and Avery?  I love it!

 Gray and Avery

 Tonight we used our brand new fire pit to roast hot dogs and smores! 

It was so fun and so messy!

I am proud to say I got this massive fire started! 

 I have a feeling this fire pit will see many fun times and good memories down the road!